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Good
morning !
D.A.D.S.
I
saw a semi-tractor trailer the other day with the letters "D.A.D.S."
emblazoned across the airfoil and along the trailer. It stands
for "Day After Day Service" which I thought was quite
appropriate in proximity to Father's day. What is it that
father's do? Day after day service to their families!
I
have thought about Saint Joseph, the foster father of Jesus,
quit a lot lately. Some say he had a tough life (being the only
sinner in the family). But I think that he had it pretty good.
When the big decisions had to be made he had an angel to tell
him what to do. "Wed Mary",,,"Go to Egypt"…"Leave Egypt"… etc.
He did not have to worry about Jesus because He was protected
"lest He dash his foot against a stone". … and the topper? He
was married to the perfect woman! (I expect he did not have to
listen to one cross word or bit of nagging…. not that I ever
have to.) He was about day after day service to two special
people.
The rest of us may not be so fortunate. We have no wise spirit
to whisper into our ear…"stocks".. or "bonds"…. "Take the new
job" or "stay put!". We have to muddle along somehow. Not all
dads can fix a flat tire but most can find a way to mend a
broken heart. Fishing and hunting with the "kids" may be one's
idea of fun but another might prefer bowling or a quite walk.
Short, fat, tall, skinny, bald, or hairy they (usually) have one
thing in common…. day after day service.
I
went to a "wake" last Monday for a pharmacist friend of mine who
epitomized fatherhood. The 45yo father of 2 children finally
completed his struggle with cancer. He was such an incredible
person that the words of Jack Nicholson from the movie "As
good as it gets" came to mind. He made everyone around him
"want to be a better man" just by his example. He was all about
service to his family, co-workers and community.
When I was growing up I always thought that the 4th
Commandment, "Honor your Father and your Mother", was for kids
so that we would obey. The real test of this Commandment is when
he gets older (and maybe a bit cranky). So take the time to
connect with your father even if you are "on the outs"… as long
as you have the opportunity. (If you have a superfantastic
relationship with him then all the better!) The caring of the
past and the dignity of the service provided "day after day" beg
for your thanks even if the man wouldn't ask for himself.
Happy Father's day to all who serve…Day After Day.
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ps. Best answer this
week to the question "How are you?"
was "Promoted!"
(My daughter was just promoted to Assistant Vice President of
Affinity Mortgage)
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